"She will come when she is ready"
The most annoying phrase of the week.
Thank you for your wise insight. I had no idea that was how this whole pregnancy, labor, and delivery concept works.
Also, when someone is sleeping about 4 hours/night for the past week - telling them "she will come when she's ready" is so therapeutic. I was tired, uncomfortable, impatient, and anxious... But now I feel so much better knowing such valuable information.
( Ha! :D )
Okay okay, I'll end my rant. You know I have to rant. I know these comments of insightful and wise advice aren't meant to be annoying. But, they are annoying.
I've been pregnant for 39 weeks and 5 days, my house is 100% ready for a baby, I'm not sleeping well - and I am very aware that babies come when they are ready.
And just to add, I've heard this from a handful of friends/colleagues this week. I never once asked them "when is this baby going to come?". this has been their response after saying "How are you feeling? Are you sleeping well?" -- and when I give my honest assessment...they say "Well, babies come when they are ready"
So now when people ask how I'm feeling - I just say "Great."
I even had someone say "Well, once she comes she isn't going anywhere. So savor these moments"
Gosh, I wish you would have told me that before I sat on a balance ball from the hours of 12 am-3am the other night having contractions and cramps. I would have worked harder at really savoring that time. That was so much fun - I don't know why it didn't dawn on me in the moment how enjoyable that was.
Okay - I'll put the salt shaker down.
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As I write this you are in labor and I wait patiently to hear the news, we’ll maybe not patiently, as I know how difficult labor can be.