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Filling it all in

I'm going to get a little philosophical here...but I've been doing a lot of reflecting this summer. And as my time in the Midwest comes to a close very soon - I have realized a few things. When I learned we would be returning to the Midwest back in March I was ecstatic. I knew this time would go extremely fast, it would be very full, and I would get to strengthen my relationships with family. All that has been accomplished. I also wondered, "will it feel weird to be back?" Indeed. I've realized that I have changed a lot since I last called this place my "home". Grown is probably a better word choice than "changed". This time has made me feel as though during my time away - I was painting the outline of a painting. Understanding what was going on - staying in touch with where everyone was it - but you don't really get to "fill in the lines" until you are face to face with those people. I really felt like I've be

Midwest Update: Where did summer go?

Where do I even begin? How has it been since June 28 since I've checked in here. Gosh, so much to catch up on. So many events, I think we will need to do a "bullet point style recap" to get this all down before time flies too fast and I forget it all! Ha! I'll throw in a few pictures, as well. Hold on tight - lots to cover ;) 4th of July weekend was amazing. So full - so much laughter - so much fun. We got to bond with family from California, cousins, siblings, nieces, nephews. Much boating, laking, laughing, eating over the 4th of July. Have I mentioned that I feel like this trip home feels like this freeze in time where I'm kind of covering ground I lost over the past 9 years? Blog post to come on that soon.... Out to dinner over the 4th of July weekend with family on my dad's side!   Fedora picture taken after a day of tubing down the river with aunts and cousins on the 4th of July Pontoon ride that weekend with several of my siblings,

If we were having happy hour

How did a month just fly by like that since I last blogged? Instead of a "Currently" update -- which is my "standard" when I haven't blogged in awhile. I'm going to switch it up and do a "If we were having happy hour" post. Because I kind of miss having happy hour with my girlfriends back in AZ! Or our 5 am runs. I never realized how much "head clearing" all that provided me with ;) If we were having happy hour I'd tell you..... That I am being faced with some challenges at work right now. And it's weighing on me a lot! I am focusing on the good, and trying to not the stress/pressure bring me down. I'm also having to make some tough decisions. I'd probably vent a little - but I watch my clock to assure I don't spend too much time ranting away about my internal struggle ;) If we were having happy hour I'd tell you.... How much I'm enjoying the amount of time we are getting with my family. I've spe

Fargonian Adventures

Greetings from Fargo! "Dontcha know" we have been in Fargo since April 9? I have been a bit absent from here. Here is my list of excuses: 1. No one reads this blog. 2. It's been kind of busy. 3. By the time I finish my day of work where I'm staring at a computer screen for 9 hours in my work from home office, I don't want to look at another screen. 4. Everytime I think about posting a blog, I don't even know where to begin :D So what have I been up to? Well, for one, trying to stay warm. It hasn't been the best weather here in Fargo. But I'm not letting that stop me from enjoying myself. And I really soak up the beautiful days. Work has been quite busy. I don't tend to talk much about that part of my life these days. I'm feeling strained, and while I'm working or thinking about working - my stomach hurts. So let's focus on the fun things in life! Wedding Fun: Love has been in the air in my family. My sister got married t

It's actually happening...

We are rapidly approaching 9 years of being Tucsonans. While at the same time...we are REALLY rapidly approaching our departure for Fargo, ND for  6 months. And I have to be honest and admit....even though it's 6 days away, it does not feel real yet. First of all, it doesn't feel real. For I was told it was happening, and then it wasn't happening, and then it was for sure happening, and then there was only about a 30% chance of it happening. But now it's really happening. I've kind of warped my brain to not believe anything is happening until I'm fully living it. But we really are moving. I've changed our address w/ USPS and I've packed 1 suitcase so far! ;) I don't even know how to explain in words how excited I am. I've missed and pined for my family so much over the past 9 years. It doesn't feel real that I'll be with them for 6 months. While at the same time, I'm going to miss my friends. I have a group of friends who ha

A few changes....

Wow. Where do I begin... It's  been a rollercoaster of a few weeks. Ryan is supposed to be coming home tomorrow. He's been home for a week. (Yay!!!) Let me tell you about last week. We went from thinking we were going to be spending 6 months in Fargo ND near family, then it was going to be Nashville, TN, then it was going to be Syracuse, NY, then it was back to Fargo. The funny thing about this life is it warps your brain to not even care where you're going -- you just want to know. But the amazing news is....we are going to Fargo, ND on April 7!!! We still don't know what kind of living situation we will have. That is changing on a hourly basis. Literally every day Ryan comes home with new "news". I don't care. I'll live in a box. Well, my company won't approve of that. But you get the point ;) As thrilled as I want to be - it's hard for me to take the excitement seriously. It changes so much that I almost am starting to feel lik

Weekend Adventures: NYC

Due to the fact that Ryan was going to be stuck in Syracuse for about 3 months, we decided it was a great opportunity to get us to New York City for the weekend. Syracuse is about a 4-5 hour drive, so we ended up meeting in NYC for President's Day weekend. I'm going to let the pictures do most of the talking here. Miraculously we get to our hotel about 20 minutes of each other. Ryan had to take a bus (long story). And I obviously flew, and took the Subway. (FYI - Google maps was the best way of figuring out the subway system!!) We got freshened up, and headed out for some exploring. Our hotel was the Marriot Residence Inn - which was wedged between Times Square and Central Park. Great destination!! We walked around Times Square for a bit, bought broadway tickets for Saturday night, and asked our guy where a local goes for the best Thai food. Times Square is a lot like Vegas. Too people-y. But pretty cool to see. Once ;) Ha! We headed a few blocks north to &quo

Phoenix Marathon

The marathon is complete. This is a story about the day I pushed my body to places I didn't know I could take it. As you know - I have trained hard. It wasn't just the 18-week training program. I've had Boston on my mind for about 2 years now. However, when I started training, I had a variety of health issues come about. From getting bumps all over my bones with joint pain to plantar fasciitis. I had my share of "road-blocks". I also trained for a marathon last year, and couldn't run it because of a training at work. So let's fast forward to the day before the race (as I gave plenty of training updates on this blog). No time to think about the race, as work was so stressful this week. But that's not to be discussed today ;) I did the race with some of my best girlfriends. In fact, they are some of the best girlfriends a girl could ever ask for. We hit up the expo 1st. We always really enjoy the expo as a time to just really soak it all in

Strengths

Recently I was put on a big project at work to help build the "nursing role" within my company. Since nurses working for insurance companies is a fairly "new" idea. I chuckled a bit when I was invited to participate on this committee...for this is my 3rd "RN Retention Committee" I've been asked to serve on in my short 6 1/2 years in this field. After serving on the committee, I got a phone call from a "Leadership Consultant" in my company (one of the perks of working for a big company....so many resources!!) -- who said she wanted to be my mentor. I was ecstatic about this. As every time I listen to her speak or lead a meeting, I always thought to myself "Wow, I want to be like her when I grow up." She is an incredible leader and communicator. She has given me several tasks to do, books to read, videos to watch on my own time, to grow me as a leader. But the most interesting task I was given was to take this "5 Strengths&

Peculiar Destinations

As I was writing about our trip to Syracuse , I made the statement " I don't think we would have visited this part of the country, if it weren't for Ryan's job.". And it dawned on me that there are a lot of beautiful, amazing places I wouldn't have explored...if it weren't for just that! "We will see how things play out" are words that come out of my mouth several times/week, in fact. When trying to make plans in advance. And I'm okay with that. We cannot control what we cannot control! So here are few gems we have found due to our situation: 1. Tucson !! When I look back at "me" 10 years ago, I would not have chose Tucson. In fact, if you gave me a map and said "Pick anywhere" -- I'd pick someone with more seasons. But, WOW, I can't picture life had we need found this place. Our adventures, the hobbies we've picked up, the friends we've made, the lifestyle we developed.... 2. Montgomery, Alabama